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Post by Sketcher2 on Jun 3, 2018 22:33:24 GMT
The most stressful part of my life is my mom's battle with cancer and my daily attacks. Other than that I do not have any other stressors.
How about you?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 5, 2018 11:37:29 GMT
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Post by David on Jun 5, 2018 20:19:28 GMT
Hi Fleurette
What ever I am currently stressed about is
less important to what you are having to deal with
re your Moms cancer battle above all else.
For as you have clearly pointed out...
"My mom has lung cancer and it is in stage 4. It has spread to her lymph nodes, brain and eighth rib."
As I have shared elsewhere my thoughts and prayers are with you as a family at this exceeding
difficult time for you all to come to terms with, D. x
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Post by David on Jun 7, 2018 0:21:33 GMT
Relating to our Mothers
they as far as I'm concerned
are the most intimate person
we will have ever come in to
contact with during our whole
life experience.
For no where else will we have
spent a gestation period of 38 weeks
within their womb prior to experiencing
the world outside.
Hence the reason I have said
what I have thus far...
when it appears we are about to lose
such a most significant other in our lives.
In saying that it is important in recognition
of their memory that we continue
to go on living as they would expect us too
in the knowledge that the sacrifices they
done for us to survive were well made...
to last us our life time also.
As Her parents wished for her!
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Post by David on Jun 7, 2018 22:47:56 GMT
How are you today Fleurette?
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Post by walterchang on Jun 8, 2018 1:30:20 GMT
Hi, fleurette
I am sorry to hear your mother's battle with cancer. I will pray for you and your mother.
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Post by Sketcher2 on Jun 8, 2018 4:41:58 GMT
Hi David,
Thanks for asking how I am doing. I was crying today because my friend was scolding me for relying too much on my mom. She doesn't think that I am independent enough and that I have got to change. There are so many things that I am afraid of and cannot handle on my own.
Hi Walter,
Thanks for your prayers. How have you been? Recently?
Thanks for reading this.
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Post by walterchang on Jun 8, 2018 5:07:27 GMT
I am on medications too and God bless you fleurette and your mother.
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Post by David on Jun 8, 2018 21:31:18 GMT
Hi Fleurette
Believe me when I say that often what we think
is more imagination when it comes to coping.
Trust in yourself and you will get by...
and when you realise it does work it
will set you free on of such previous dependency...
and make you wonder why you did not do it earlier.
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Post by David on Jun 8, 2018 21:42:52 GMT
PS.,What I am getting at is... the instinct for survival
kicks in when a safety net is withdrawn.
By that I mean...
We learn to cope much more quickly than we
ever thought possible.
when cocooned by another... no matter how
close they were to us during their lifetime.
I say that for what we learned from them
never leaves us what is more their memory
continues to be with us throughout our life time.
That is something I find most comforting whenever
I feel alone... from such protection.
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