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Post by Hercules on Dec 3, 2016 22:58:28 GMT
David,
I don't think anything beyond the pale was said in your exchange with Keith. Please come back to us when you have had a chance to reflect.
I noticed your profile said "Deleted member" today.
Thanks
Hercules.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2016 23:38:14 GMT
Yeah it's not worth deleting yourself from your friends here. Taking a break I can understand but I hope you come back.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2016 23:46:43 GMT
Hi David,
I won't be apologising for my words. They were not intended to make you leave. I think, overall, you are a helpful member and that the site benefits by your presence. Just thought I would write that.
Keith
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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2016 6:17:15 GMT
David,
I surely hope you will reconsider. You are a great part of this forum just as you were on MT. People have disagreements and even in real life off the forum we are going to run into folks that we disagree with.
You have a lot of good friends here and it's not fair that you leave over a couple of people.
I hope I am making sense.
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Post by Hercules on Dec 6, 2016 6:46:49 GMT
David,
I kind of figured this time was a bit different by the way you didn't leave a good bye note.
When I quit my sporting forum last year I didn't leave a good bye I just went. Somehow it makes it more final not to say goodbye.
So what do I want to say in this note. I think I will just tell a story. When I worked in the marketing department, it was deadly to be promoted to the level of marketing Director. Us marketing managers all reported to a Director. When you were a Director you were really in the spotlight and it was only a matter of time before they invented some reason to let you go. My Boss, who we will call Henry, was a top bloke and we loved him as he had our backs. One day Henry's number came up. The brass flew in from another province and sat us down in a hastily called meeting and told us the news. They gave me a thirsty stare during the message and I could see I had nearly been swept up in it for good measure. Immediately after the meeting me and my team mate went to find Henry. He was in his office packing his momentos into a cardboard box. And we realised he was going to have to do the walk of shame out of the office in front of 300 staff members holding his cardboard box. I took one look at my co-worker and she nodded in agreement without nodding though.
As he began his walk of shame I stood on one side of him, and she took his other flank. And so we walked out of the building. In a show of solidarity. He appreciated it despite being humiliated. We walked him out of the building as an FU to management and because we cared and because somethings you just do out loyalty and out of respect.
I would walk out of the building with you David.
I don't know if you feel like you said to much, or if Keith said too much, or if I did something wrong over the past few days.
What I do know is that you can sometimes be a great Gallah David. Other times you can be stoically the most sensible character I have ever met. But perhaps that is what we like about you.
Where ever your travels may take you. Take a peice of us with you.
God speed David.
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Post by Medicated on Dec 6, 2016 15:18:11 GMT
Earlier I was at this thread, thinking of a reply. Then I was thinking about moving on in a psychological sense... So I looked up and found on youtube this song www.youtube.com/watch?v=bSsE_G39F0YAnd it speaks to me. Is this a special message for me, or just one of those trope-like/psychological archetype-types where everyone or many people (3 million) have experienced something similar? Meds p.s. I feel it's relevant for this thread as well, that's why I posted it.
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Dec 7, 2016 4:08:12 GMT
Post by Deleted on Dec 7, 2016 4:08:12 GMT
I think it speaks a lot what Keith has posted to you here in this thread. What I have learned from his words is that it's ok to disagree but that he never meant to make you leave.
Keith that was very sincere
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Dec 7, 2016 23:28:32 GMT
Post by Deleted on Dec 7, 2016 23:28:32 GMT
he could just block or unblock others
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Dec 7, 2016 23:35:57 GMT
Post by Deleted on Dec 7, 2016 23:35:57 GMT
maybe i was too critical
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Post by walterchang on Dec 8, 2016 1:47:09 GMT
Hi, David
Come back and stay with us because we are a great team. We can support one another although there are some personal verbal attack. It is not a problem.
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Post by David on Dec 8, 2016 23:42:59 GMT
David, I don't think anything beyond the pale was said in your exchange with Keith. Please come back to us when you have had a chance to reflect. I noticed your profile said "Deleted member" today. Thanks Hercules. Your right Hercules , I left abruptly for I was of the impression that I had overstepped the mark however, on reading what you kindly share above, I have reconsidered my position here and decided to continue to serve this fellowship, in whatever way I can, as a result of my long term experience in another place.
I would like to place on record what other members have said also in this thread.. all good wholesome stuff... that I acknowledge with heartfelt gratitude< David
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Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2016 5:30:23 GMT
Welcome back David.
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Dec 9, 2016 6:35:31 GMT
Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2016 6:35:31 GMT
Yes welcome back David!
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Dec 9, 2016 9:45:20 GMT
Post by Hercules on Dec 9, 2016 9:45:20 GMT
Welcome back David. Very good to see you here.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2016 19:51:06 GMT
Welcome back David, Sometimes we need to step back and take a break. You are such a pivotal member of the team always thinking up new threads to get us communicating. We all suffer from mental illness here and there are going to be times things go pear shaped but it is great to know the door is always open. This is one place it is OK to just be ourselves. You know I have been in the psyche hospital over 16 times in the last decade. The thing is that place is a place of healing for me because it is the one place that accepts me just how I am....we sit in the dining room and laugh that it is the one place we feel normal. Thank you for reconsidering, I do know members were fretting that you had left. Sue
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