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Post by chelle on Aug 28, 2024 5:04:22 GMT
Chelle is free after 25 years of marriage. You all know what I went through with my husband over the years.
The last 2 years have been severe bullying and severe mental abuse by this man.
I'm in a domestic violence shelter for 2 months now. The things that were being done to me were nothing but true evil.
I won't go into it because I'd have to write a book. Lovely Sue from Australia has gone through it with me and was there for me all the way through it.
Im.soon going to have my own apartment and it's all on the works. I'm retired now and I'll be able to afford it all on my pension.
I'm feeling so much better already being away from all of that.
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Post by Hercules on Aug 28, 2024 6:45:04 GMT
So sorry to hear you went through all of that.
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Post by chelle on Sept 19, 2024 4:36:00 GMT
Hi herc,
I'm now in my own place and im healing from all the sickness and emotional trauma. I'm feeling much better. I'm retired now too.
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Post by Hercules on Sept 20, 2024 6:50:11 GMT
Hi herc, I'm now in my own place and im healing from all the sickness and emotional trauma. I'm feeling much better. I'm retired now too. I think you are a great person And apart from my ex wife I have proven to be a good judge of character |
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Post by chelle on Oct 6, 2024 2:34:22 GMT
Thank you Hercules. I tend to think I'm a good person. I don't understand why he did what he did to me. I know I deserved none of it.
I spoke to soon on being sick. I have good days and bad days but at least on my bad days I dont have someone bullying me and I can listen to my body and just rest.
Not sure what happened to me. The scurvey really knocked me down and im wondering if these effects are going to be forever.
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Post by Hercules on Oct 17, 2024 5:25:48 GMT
Thank you Hercules. I tend to think I'm a good person. I don't understand why he did what he did to me. I know I deserved none of it. I spoke to soon on being sick. I have good days and bad days but at least on my bad days I dont have someone bullying me and I can listen to my body and just rest. Not sure what happened to me. The scurvey really knocked me down and im wondering if these effects are going to be forever. I am glad you are safe now. |
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Post by chelle on Oct 22, 2024 2:05:19 GMT
Thank you hercs. Im still petrified and traumatized. It was horrible. I never thought he could be so cruel. Im.still scared. I feel safe here at my apartment but I'm petrified if he finds me. Im actually scared for my life. It was that bad.
I do have lots of support. A therapist and a peer support along with friends.
Im.glad to see that you still pop in once in a while. I hope your doing well these days.
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Post by Hercules on Oct 24, 2024 3:26:47 GMT
Thank you hercs. Im still petrified and traumatized. It was horrible. I never thought he could be so cruel. Im.still scared. I feel safe here at my apartment but I'm petrified if he finds me. Im actually scared for my life. It was that bad. I do have lots of support. A therapist and a peer support along with friends. Im.glad to see that you still pop in once in a while. I hope your doing well these days. Strange that he changed so much as he wasn't always that way. Sorry you went through that but glad you are safe now. I am ok. A few issues at work. Hoping they will blow over. Have put on a lot of weight. I am 118kgs. My marriage is over. I am seperated now. Oh well it was not meant to be. Fate was against us from the start to the finish. Govt restrictions for Covid 19 meant her family couldn't come to our wedding day. Yes really. And we just seemed to get bad luck as a couple and things didn't work out. Also she was a commitment phobic person who prefers to be single waiting for "the one perfect person" rather than settling for who she is with. There was some problems I caused as well. Very hard to go through the separation but nearly a year has gone by now. All for now Hercules |
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